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Family affairs
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+ Pointer	Mar 1 2016, 10:15 AM Post #1
... Posts: 7,062 Group: Elite Member Member #8,812 Joined: January 5, 2013 Gender Male	The upcoming info might disturb you. Beware So.... one of my friends (guy) has had sexual relationship with his sister, which later revealed that they have been doin that throughout the years. He is now 23 his sister is 20 . They were caught not in the action, but by videos, as he filmed some of their sexes and uploaded to a porn site. They were spoted....family was informed. His dad beat him with some wooden stick so that he went to hospital. His sister was sent to her grandmother. Wtf... I would never expect something from a friend of mine. They say they have been doin it ever since she were 13. So 7 years straight Goddammit. What do you think about it ? Imagine that you were the Dad or the mother how would you handle this case, how would you keep the "healthy family status" after this? Edited by Pointer, Mar 1 2016, 10:16 AM.



+ Sandy Shore	Mar 1 2016, 06:33 PM Post #2
Posts: 1,860 Group: Elite Member Member #12,337 Joined: May 18, 2015	I think his dad is an unjust brute. They have a right to do so if they wish, and the family doesn't have to accept it if they don't wish, but he's no right to beat him with a stick because he's a fragile, weak man - evidently. The only thing I would disagree with is if they were to want to have children together.



+ Pointer	Mar 1 2016, 06:47 PM Post #3
... Posts: 7,062 Group: Elite Member Member #8,812 Joined: January 5, 2013 Gender Male	Lazuli Mar 1 2016, 06:33 PM I think his dad is an unjust brute. They have a right to do so if they wish, and the family doesn't have to accept it if they don't wish, but he's no right to beat him with a stick because he's a fragile, weak man - evidently. The only thing I would disagree with is if they were to want to have children together. I dont know the details, but yes his father's reaction was too much i mean, he is still in hospital On the other hand what they did is well, it is considered tabu in most countries, heck even in tribes. And it makes me realise that i didnt even know him.



+ Sandy Shore	Mar 1 2016, 06:58 PM Post #4
Posts: 1,860 Group: Elite Member Member #12,337 Joined: May 18, 2015	Taboo doesn't mean immoral. Does it make you dislike him?



+ Pointer	Mar 1 2016, 07:22 PM Post #5
... Posts: 7,062 Group: Elite Member Member #8,812 Joined: January 5, 2013 Gender Male	No...not at all, but i just lost the respect you know.... doing that to his sister for years.... and she was underaged as fck



+ Sandy Shore	Mar 1 2016, 07:48 PM Post #6
Posts: 1,860 Group: Elite Member Member #12,337 Joined: May 18, 2015	Yes, but there's only three-years between them, and there's no reason to doubt she was a consenting party, is there? Thirteen and sixteen does sound iffy, but fourteen and seventeen, or and fifteen and eighteen sound perfectly normal. I think it would be unfair to treat her like a victim, and him an abuser, without knowing why or how it occurred. It's not like he's been after other young girls, is it? He's seemingly been in a consenting relationship with her for seven-years.



+ Pointer	Mar 1 2016, 07:51 PM Post #7
... Posts: 7,062 Group: Elite Member Member #8,812 Joined: January 5, 2013 Gender Male	Lazuli Mar 1 2016, 07:48 PM Yes, but there's only three-years between them, and there's no reason to doubt she was a consenting party, is there? Thirteen and sixteen does sound iffy, but fourteen and seventeen, or and fifteen and eighteen sound perfectly normal. I think it would be unfair to treat her like a victim, and him an abuser, without knowing why or how it occurred. It's not like he's been after other young girls, is it? He's seemingly been in a consenting relationship with her for seven-years. I dont blame him as an abuser... as they could kept in secret for years I think the sister was perfectly fine with it. But still.... it is you know.... Thats would somehow "explain" why the guy never had any decent relationships ( as far as I know) Edited by Pointer, Mar 1 2016, 07:52 PM.



Buuberries	Mar 1 2016, 07:52 PM Post #8
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	Apparently it's fairly common for siblings to experiment on each other. I dint have a source to back that up tho. It was a surprise to me when I heard it cuz I've never even thought about s*** like that w my sisters
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+ Pointer	Mar 1 2016, 07:53 PM Post #9
... Posts: 7,062 Group: Elite Member Member #8,812 Joined: January 5, 2013 Gender Male	Buuberries Mar 1 2016, 07:52 PM Apparently it's fairly common for siblings to experiment on each other. I dint have a source to back that up tho. It was a surprise to me when I heard it cuz I've never even thought about s*** like that w my sisters But what made them to .... go further after the first "experiments" I mean... it was sex as it is ... and for years



+ Sandy Shore	Mar 1 2016, 07:58 PM Post #10
Posts: 1,860 Group: Elite Member Member #12,337 Joined: May 18, 2015	Buuberries Mar 1 2016, 07:52 PM It was a surprise to me when I heard it cuz I've never even thought about s*** like that w my sisters Maybe you just don't have very sexy sisters? If you were my sister...



* Mitas	Mar 1 2016, 07:58 PM Post #11
It truly was a Shawshank redemption Posts: 12,129 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,993 Joined: December 16, 2007 Gender Male Favourite Anime DBZ What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DBZ, Full Metal Alchemist	Lazuli Mar 1 2016, 06:33 PM I think his dad is an unjust brute. They have a right to do so if they wish, and the family doesn't have to accept it if they don't wish, but he's no right to beat him with a stick because he's a fragile, weak man - evidently. The only thing I would disagree with is if they were to want to have children together. It's easy to sit and judge someone for reacting in such a way when you're detached from the situation (heck, even if you aren't detached, people still react in different ways). I'm not saying he was right to react the way he did, but I wouldn't go as far as to single him out as a brute, or a weak man, or call him names at all. This isn't him blowing up over a trivial matter. There's a lot of emotion involved, so I don't see how you can judge him so severely for losing control of those emotions. Regarding the actual event, I dunno. I mean, if they're both consenting adults and they don't bring children into it, I don't think anyone can take issue with it. On the other hand, something about it is just doesn't sit right. If I was in Pointer's situation I honestly don't know how it would affect my friendship with that person. It'd certainly have an effect on it, that's for sure, just not sure how much of one.
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Buuberries	Mar 1 2016, 08:05 PM Post #12
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	Lazuli Mar 1 2016, 07:58 PM Buuberries Mar 1 2016, 07:52 PM It was a surprise to me when I heard it cuz I've never even thought about s*** like that w my sisters Maybe you just don't have very sexy sisters? If you were my sister... There are three of us and i'm actually the least good looking Not that I'm clint eastwood or anything but I think I'm aight
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+ Ssj3vegito96	Mar 1 2016, 08:18 PM Post #13
Posts: 10,327 Group: Elite Member Member #10,438 Joined: November 2, 2013 Gender Male Country United States Favourite Anime Dragon ball/Z/GT/S, Fullmetal Alchemist:Brotherhood, One Punch Man Favourite Manga DB/Z/S	Mitas Mar 1 2016, 07:58 PM Lazuli Mar 1 2016, 06:33 PM I think his dad is an unjust brute. They have a right to do so if they wish, and the family doesn't have to accept it if they don't wish, but he's no right to beat him with a stick because he's a fragile, weak man - evidently. The only thing I would disagree with is if they were to want to have children together. It's easy to sit and judge someone for reacting in such a way when you're detached from the situation (heck, even if you aren't detached, people still react in different ways). I'm not saying he was right to react the way he did, but I wouldn't go as far as to single him out as a brute, or a weak man, or call him names at all. This isn't him blowing up over a trivial matter. There's a lot of emotion involved, so I don't see how you can judge him so severely for losing control of those emotions. Regarding the actual event, I dunno. I mean, if they're both consenting adults and they don't bring children into it, I don't think anyone can take issue with it. On the other hand, something about it is just doesn't sit right. If I was in Pointer's situation I honestly don't know how it would affect my friendship with that person. It'd certainly have an effect on it, that's for sure, just not sure how much of one. This ^ I don't blame the dad for being pissed. I don't think I would I beat my son with a stick till he's hospitalized but this is messed up dude no one should be allowed to have sex with their siblings it's weird as f***
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+ Sandy Shore	Mar 1 2016, 08:24 PM Post #14
Posts: 1,860 Group: Elite Member Member #12,337 Joined: May 18, 2015	Mitas Mar 1 2016, 07:58 PM It's easy to sit and judge someone for reacting in such a way when you're detached from the situation (heck, even if you aren't detached, people still react in different ways). I'm not saying he was right to react the way he did, but I wouldn't go as far as to single him out as a brute, or a weak man, or call him names at all. This isn't him blowing up over a trivial matter. There's a lot of emotion involved, so I don't see how you can judge him so severely for losing control of those emotions. His father wasn't defending somebody, or seeking retribution for a violent act; he couldn't control how he felt about the situation and turned to violence. That's a weakness. This isn't about his little thirteen-year-old girl who has just been taken advantage of, but a twenty-year-old woman who, as far as we know, has been happily involved for a long time, and seemingly happy for it to go on longer. Lashing out at someone because you're sad or angry about a situation is brutish behaviour - regardless of how undesirable or uncommon it may be. More than that, though, I call him weak and brutish because he beat someone with a weapon, and severely enough to put them in hospital. He couldn't control himself at all. As for the rest of what you say, I do get why Pointer would feel different towards this other person, and I'm not saying he mustn't, but I'm just pointing out that it's not really rational, or even fair to do so if his friend hasn't done anything wrong or cruel. SSJ3Vegito this is messed up dude no one should be allowed to have sex with their siblings it's weird as f* Just because you feel something is "weird as f" doesn't mean others shouldn't be allowed to do so when there is no victim. I find people urinating on each other weird as f, does that mean no one should be allowed to do so? Of course not. Edited by Sandy Shore**, Mar 1 2016, 08:29 PM.



+ Steve	Mar 1 2016, 09:55 PM Post #15
Greetings. I will be your waifu this season. Posts: 19,471 Group: Legend Member #5,710 Joined: February 7, 2011 Gender Male Country United Kingdom Favourite Anime Hunter x Hunter(2011) What Browser do you use? Mozilla Firefox Favourite Manga Berserk all day erry day	Yeah I agree with Lazuli, the father is a brute. That's a pathetic reaction. Being mad? Fair enough, I doubt he raised his kids to f* each other but that's a disgusting reaction, especially since he was taking out his rage on just the son rather than punishing them both in the way a mature adult would. Why do that? Did he even listen to the story or did he just get mad or worse assume that the son forced his sister in to it without even discussing it? If the boy was like 18 and the girl was like 13 when it started then okay, he'd most likely be taking advantage of someone who doesn't know any better but that's not the case here and considering it's been going on so long it's obviously something they're both in to. It's been said already but so long as they're not bringing kids in to it there's no real harm to it as far as I'm concerned, incest certainly isn't something we want being a core part of society since people would definitely end up having kids via incest a lot more but in general I wouldn't call it immoral. Some people like to have their a* spanked until they bleed, others like to have their balls crushed by people wearing high heels, some like to be strangled and beaten quite brutally and then there are those who only get off on seeing their husband/wife cheating on them. All those to me are pretty f*ing weird but nobody can say people shouldn't indulge in those practices(well, ball crushing is probably quite dangerous for the dingleberries) Incest is pretty darn tame. So long as people move on from it at some point and/or don't have kids who does it hurt? The families reputation? I see no reason why two people who have feelings for each other should care, much like how nobody should pretend they're not homosexual because their family is against it. If your family won't support you or try to understand/help you then they're a*. Edited by Steve**, Mar 1 2016, 09:57 PM.
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